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Thank You With Style

Thank You With Style

I try to set a good example for the girls. I'm stepping up my Thank You With Style. In fact, I just finished up "helping"my 4-year-old daughter send her notes off to all the friends who attended her party. The etiquette of crafting the perfect Thank You note can be taught at an early age to help teach gratitude. Teaching children this skill will not only help to make this a habit as they grow up, but is also a wonderful activity to share together and a great opportunity to aid their writing skills. We used the adorable monkey cardsfeatured at the top ($14 for 10 cards).

Next year, I'll move her up to these Fill In The Blank Butterfly cards that she can personalize; 10 cards for $14.

Here are some helpful tips from the etiquette experts at Crane & Co., the legendary stationery company which has made connecting, celebrating and expressing possible for over two centuries, on how to craft the perfect Thank You Note.

Discuss with children why a thank you note is important. While writing a note may seem to be an arduous task for the younger generation, they will appreciate this experience as they get older.
Make it fun/ Say it with style. Help your child pick out stationery or note cards that most reflect their personality. Choosing stationery with their favorite animal, color or theme will help your child become more involved in the experience. As they get older their Thank You Notes will continue to reflect their aesthetic whether it's classic, romantic, minimalist.
Be gracious in a timely manner. Thank You Notes should be sent out as soon as possible after a gift is received. One to two weeks is the sweet spot, as your child's note should be a thoughtful gesture, not a reminder for what was given.
Give credit where credit is due. Make sure your child addresses the Thank You Note to the person or persons who gave them the gift. If the gift was signed from your friend and her husband, the note should address both individuals (even if you know she did all the work). Everyone likes to feel appreciated, after all.
Name drop. Mention the gift your child received by name. It may seem like a small detail, but in an era of generic, automated emails, it's nice to receive something that is personalized just for you.

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Are you fashionably late with your Thank You notes? Same here. Crane to the rescue. This classic brand has come to my rescue with a stationery sample and tips for writing the perfect note. Doesn't it all start with great paper? We think so.

Crane has been teaming up with Kate Spade on a chic collection (click here). Floral $25 for box of 10 and the Merci are on sale for $15 per box of 10 100% cotton paper--ideal for all year round. Kind of makes you want to be gracious!

To see the full line of Crane Thank Yous visit

Momtrends was not paid for this post. We did get samples.

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