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Fall is in the air. Pumpkin flavors abound in everything from coffee to candles. Football dominates the weekends. And, the kids have returned to school. What could be better than resuming the sense of normalcy after the freewheeling days of summer? It sounds great, but any parent will tell you the start of the school year presents a whole new set of problems: morning madness. One mom described trying to get her kids and herself out the door in the morning a "daily disaster.” Do it differently this year. Instead of letting chaos reign, take control of your morning by getting your entire family organized. It's simpler than you may think. Calm mornings await you, with just a little advice.



Before you organize things, organize behaviors. This sounds simple enough, right? Do the same thing over and over again. But there's more to it than lather, rinse, repeat. In fact, there's scientific evidence that supports creating regularity for your children; it helps them develop time management skills.

Researchers at the University at Albany looked at the impact of daily routines on childhood development. They surveyed 292 young adults and found that those who grew up with predictable, daily routines were less likely to have time management or attention issues as adults.


Most children are not known for their tidiness. How many times have you asked your child to go clean their room? If your kid can't find their favorite pair of socks or homework beneath the clutter, it's adding to morning stress.

Build a place to house your child's things and help them create a habit of putting away their clothes, shoes, and accessories by building them a custom closet. It's a lot easier than you think. These days it’s easy and affordable to design convenient, professional closet systems for your children to call their own.

Each night before your child goes to sleep, you can remind them to put things away in their proper place. Then, you can create a new habit together: picking out clothes for the next day.


Don't stop in their bedroom. Build each child (and parent!) a cubby in your mudroom or foyer with hooks for backpacks, purses, and briefcases. Think about shelving for shoes and drawers for keys.

Dr. Nicole Beurkens, a Licensed Psychologist and Board Certified Nutrition Specialist, offered a creative tip. "One game-changer for families, especially with elementary age kids or younger, is to keep everyone's socks by the door with the shoes instead of in the bedroom."

Once you have the physical objects in place, it's time to initiate the routine. Before your child goes to sleep or after they finish their homework, remind them to put their backpack on its hook with their schoolwork inside.


"Parents can make the morning routine less stressful for everyone by teaching their kids the skills to get ready for school themselves," said parenting author Amy Carney. Write them a "to-do" list. Hang it in the bathroom or inside the door of their newly organized closet. These are some items you can include: Brush teeth, wash face, comb hair, Gget dressed, etc. Eventually, these things will become a habit, and you can ditch the list.


Don't be jealous of your child's neat closet. Do the same for yourself. Then you won't be looking for your suit jacket or sweater when you're in a hurry.

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Kids and parents alike need lunches or snacks for school. Hats and scarves are a must for certain times of the year. These things don't need to take you by surprise.

Mastering your morning starts the night before. Pack lunches (enlist your kids' help!). Check an app and figure out what's in store for tomorrow's weather. Pro tip: make sure you keep umbrellas and other weather accessories in your newly organized mudroom.

Finally, read your work calendar to see what's on the agenda for tomorrow. Do not welcome surprises into the morning crush of activity. Know what's ahead.


Remember the suggested routine elements? One idea is to initiate conversations about what lies ahead for your day. But sometimes children forget what's on tap. Remind them by creating a family calendar.

This part of the new family routine will encourage dialogue and, again, reduce surprises. You will know the date of the science fair. Soccer practice and your book club will get a spot on the calendar, too. This routine will also encourage and promote family discussions about what is happening in each other's lives.


Managing a household is not easy. Maintaining a calm morning challenges even the most organized parents. So once you have all of these new levers in place, don't forget to take care of yourself.

An organized home will cut time out of your morning and evening chores. Instead of hunting for clothing or accessories, you'll know where to find your things. And your kids will, too. Imagine the time everyone will save.

Put the additional hours toward something you love doing – and give your family members the same opportunity.

Want more organization tips from Momtrends?

1. Back-to-School Organization Ideas

2. Streamlining Your Morning Routine

3. Simple Hacks That Make Monday More Manageable


This is not a sponsored post. Copy by Marty Basher, home organization expert for

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